Self Confidence- Indispensable

      

I came across many people in my  life they are diligent, creative and efficient. But what they are lacked in is confident.Why confident is so much necessary and how we can get it? Why does it matter to you?

   When you believe in yourself means you make other people to consider you a trustworthy person. When you are not educated, skilful, strong, healthy, and beautiful you fell a prey to this disorder. That will be the reason of your collapse.             

 

        Throughout my life I have been struggling to be more confident when there was time in my school I wish I would not have been there in class or had the teacher asked someone else. My turn of speaking shattered my words and ideas I became so much depressed with the idea of expressing myself and assignments . It was not ceased here, even with friends I was not much affable. I felt sometimes their ideas and notions are wrong  but I never found words to negate them. This gravity of situation has been mounting up with the time. 

          When I embarked upon my professional journey this hit me most. I literally trembling while taking my interviews. I know it's ridiculous to mention here but very often I forget my name. Why it is so?  With wistful eyes I see other peers who speak and express themselves so well. Then I made this determination to make over this deficiency but question was how? 

The things which confident people possess is not knowledge but the art how to hide and overcome your weakness.

     You have to be more imaginative and visualizing the ideal of you. Think how do you want other people to look at you? Your mind will start working in that direction. When we feed our brain with positivity it takes a direction. 

      I felt the way I speak seems quite bizarre so I started to listen anchors of different channels, I used to copy you tubers who I assume are well spoken. I started to speak with my siblings in my desire accent and language. My learning is now becoming my soliloquy. Though my family laughed at me alot yet I was on track.

   The way you look is really matters, I was obese, so I successfully shed my those extra pounds to look better and in shape that gave me a boost. Then I started to work on my hair. I get my haircut from a cheap salon that entirely had changed my outlook and I was not the same.

     The thing what I did was taking risks. Instead of procrastinating my plans I became quick action and decision and making them right with my actions. Challenge after challenge I handled over. Moment after moment it's developing my personality.

Assume yourself the best. The more value yourself the more confident you will be and there will be phenomenal change when you say yes I can do. It will take you from be to being.